Mark 5:21–43 braids two stories together. Jairus, a ruler of the synagogue (an important local leader), falls at Jesus’s feet and begs Him to come heal his dying twelve-year-old daughter. Jesus goes, but on the way He stops for someone else. While He is still speaking, messengers arrive with the worst news: the girl has died. Mark says that as soon as Jesus heard it, He turned to Jairus and said, “Be not afraid, only believe” (Mark 5:36). At the house the mourners laughed at Him, but He took the girl by the hand and said, “Talitha cumi”: “Damsel, I say unto thee, arise” (Mark 5:41). She got up and walked, and Jesus told them to give her something to eat. If a youth has lost someone they prayed for, acknowledge it gently: faith doesn’t always change the outcome, but Jesus never leaves us, and because of Him everyone will rise again.
The woman in the middle had been bleeding for twelve years, as long as Jairus’s daughter had been alive. She had spent everything on doctors and only gotten worse (Mark 5:26). Under the law of Moses her condition made her ceremonially unclean (Leviticus 15:25–27), which probably meant years of being kept at a distance. She came up behind Jesus in the crush and touched His clothes. He stopped, asked who touched Him and waited until she came forward, trembling. He didn’t scold her; He called her “Daughter” and sent her away in peace. President Russell M. Nelson’s general conference talk “Drawing the Power of Jesus Christ into Our Lives” (April 2017) describes her reach as a picture of the spiritual stretching we do to draw on the Savior’s power. Fasting, which some of your class may be doing today, is one of those reaches.
Matthew 10 and Luke 9 record Jesus calling the Twelve Apostles, giving them power to heal and bless, and sending them out. He warned them about opposition, then gave them promises that still work for a nervous teenager: the Spirit will give you words when you need them (Matthew 10:19–20), not even a sparrow falls without your Father, and “the very hairs of your head are all numbered” (10:29–31). Today living Apostles are called as special witnesses of Jesus Christ, just as the first Twelve were.
Luke 9:23–25 is the cost of discipleship: deny yourself, take up your cross daily and follow Him. The Joseph Smith Translation of Matthew 16:26 explains that taking up your cross means denying yourself all ungodliness and every worldly lust and keeping His commandments. For fourteen- to sixteen-year-olds, the biggest crosses are often social: being the one who leaves the party, who says what they believe in class, who invites a friend. Today’s fears game gives them a chance to practice.